How to Not Look Like a Hostage on Camera
You know the look. Stiff shoulders. Eyes darting off to the side. A smile that says "everything is fine" while the eyes say "blink twice if you need help." It's the hostage video look, and I've seen it on more business owners than I can count. Great people. Smart people. People who can sell ice in a Northeast January. Then the red light comes on and suddenly they're reading a statement under duress.
Good news: it's fixable. Here's how.
First, you're not weird. You're normal.
Let that sink in. More people are scared of talking than of, you know, not being alive anymore. So if you're nervous about shooting your company video, congratulations. You're a regular human being. The camera isn't the problem. The camera is just a very quiet audience that never laughs at your jokes. (That's what I'm for.)
1. Don't memorize a script
This is the number one hostage maker. The second you try to recite something word for word, your brain switches from "talking" to "remembering," and it shows all over your face. You start looking up and to the left like the answer is written on the ceiling.
Instead, know your three or four main points and just talk about them. You already know your business better than anyone alive. You don't need a script to explain what you do. You do it every day. If we need a word-perfect line, that's what a teleprompter or a few extra takes are for.
2. Talk to one person, not "the audience"
Nobody's watching your video in a stadium. They're watching it on a phone, alone, probably on the couch, possibly in the bathroom. (Don't think about that one too hard.) So talk to one person. Picture your favorite customer, or your buddy from the hardware store, and explain it to them. Your voice relaxes, your face relaxes, and suddenly you sound like you, not a press release.
3. Know where to look
Two options, and we'll tell you which one before we roll:
- Straight into the lens when you're talking directly to the viewer. Look into the lens, not at the camera. Pretend there's a tiny person living in there. He's a good listener.
- At the interviewer when it's a conversation-style interview. Just talk to me like we're chatting, and forget the camera exists. It's shy. It won't interrupt.
What you don't want is the in-between: glancing at the lens, then at me, then at the ceiling, then at your shoes. That's the "is this thing on?" look, and it makes you seem nervous even when you're not.
4. Turn your energy up about 20%
Here's a weird truth about cameras: they eat energy. Whatever you bring, the camera takes a little off the top. So if you talk at your normal "Tuesday morning before coffee" level, you'll come across flat. Bump it up. Smile a little more than feels natural. Let your hands move. It'll feel like overacting in the room, and it'll look totally normal on screen. Trust me on this one.
5. Dress for the camera, not the golf course
- Solid colors win. Mid-tones like blue, green, burgundy and gray look great.
- Skip thin stripes and tiny checks. On camera they can shimmer and dance around like a Magic Eye poster from 1994.
- Avoid all bright white or all black. White glows, black turns into a void. Neither is a good look.
- No big logos unless they're yours. You're not a NASCAR driver.
- Wear what you'd actually wear to work. If you never wear a tie, don't start now. You'll look like you're on your way to court.
6. The first take is a warm-up (and nobody will see it)
Almost nobody nails it on take one, and that's fine. The first run is where the nerves burn off. By take three you're loose, you've stopped thinking about your hands and you actually sound like yourself. That's usually the keeper. So don't panic when the first one feels rough. It's supposed to.
7. Stumbles are no big deal
Flub a word? Pause, take a breath and start the sentence over. Don't stop and apologize to the camera for five minutes. We'll cut it. That's literally what editing is for. Long pauses, "ums," a sneeze, the UPS guy knocking on the door: all fixable. The only thing I can't fix in the edit is you looking terrified the whole time, which is why we do everything else on this list.
8. Little stuff that makes a big difference
- Sit up and lean in a touch. Leaning back reads as bored. Leaning in reads as "I actually care about this."
- Keep water nearby. Nerves dry your mouth out fast.
- Go easy on the coffee. One cup: charming. Four cups: auctioneer.
- Standing? Don't lock your knees. Shift your weight, stay loose. Nobody wants to film you swaying like a palm tree.
- Silence your phone. Not vibrate. Off. The lav mic hears everything.
9. Let the crew do the worrying
Here's the part people forget: making you look good is our job, not yours. Lighting, framing, sound, angles, what gets cut and what stays. That's all on us. Your only job is to show up and be the person your customers already like. A good crew will talk you through it, crack a few bad jokes to loosen you up and make sure you walk out feeling like it went way better than you expected.
And honestly? Your customers don't want a polished robot. They want to see the real person they're about to hire. A little imperfect is a lot more trustworthy than perfectly stiff.
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No hostages were harmed in the making of this blog post.
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